Oftentimes when we are listening to someone speak, we're not listening at all.
Are we?

Frequently, we are just waiting our turn so the world can finally hear our brilliant thoughts.

Want to be heard?  Listen first.
You don't have to agree with what was said.

Restate what you heard so they immediately feel understood.
Then, share your thoughts.

You'll find others more interested in what you have to say
when they know you care about their thoughts.

Yours in achieving your personal best, Tom